What do you call it when someone convinces you to make a choice, and then once you’ve made that choice, they suddenly make you doubt it and feel like you made the wrong decision?
What do you call it when someone convinces you to make a choice, and then once you’ve made that choice, they suddenly make you doubt it and feel like you made the wrong decision?
It sounds like you may be describing a form of manipulation or gaslighting. When someone persuades you to make a decision and then later undermines that decision, it can create self-doubt and confusion. This behavior is often associated with emotional manipulation, where the person trying to influence you uses tactics to gain control or power over your feelings and choices. If you’re experiencing this, it might be helpful to talk to someone you trust about it.