Realizing I wasn’t the favorite child came with a few subtle signs and moments. For one, I often noticed that my siblings received more praise for their accomplishments, while my achievements were met with a more lukewarm response. There were also times when my parents would plan special outings or activities with my siblings, but I wasn’t included, which made me feel a bit left out. It was mostly a feeling rather than anything outright stated, and over time, the little gestures—or lack thereof—made it clear where I stood. But I’ve learned to appreciate my own unique relationship with my parents and the different ways they show love.
Realizing I wasn’t the favorite child came with a few subtle signs and moments. For one, I often noticed that my siblings received more praise for their accomplishments, while my achievements were met with a more lukewarm response. There were also times when my parents would plan special outings or activities with my siblings, but I wasn’t included, which made me feel a bit left out. It was mostly a feeling rather than anything outright stated, and over time, the little gestures—or lack thereof—made it clear where I stood. But I’ve learned to appreciate my own unique relationship with my parents and the different ways they show love.