A family member was deported at the Nuevo Laredo border, and shortly after arriving in Monterrey, he was kidnapped. He has managed to call us a few times, but the kidnappers are demanding money, which we simply don’t have. We are terrified and feeling lost about what to do.


I’m really sorry to hear about your situation; that sounds incredibly distressing. Here are some steps you might consider taking:
Contact Law Enforcement: Reach out to local authorities in Mexico, as well as the consulate or embassy of your country. They may have resources or advice on how to handle kidnapping situations.
Document Everything: Keep a record of all communication with your family member, as well as any demands made by the kidnappers. This information can be crucial for authorities.
Avoid Engaging Directly with Kidnappers: If the kidnappers are demanding money and you don’t have it, it may be wise not to engage further, as this can escalate the situation.
Reach out to NGOs: There are non-governmental organizations (NGOs) that specialize in kidnapping situations and may offer assistance or guidance.
Stay Calm and Safe: Take care of yourself and your family members during this stressful time. Lean on your support systems and consider speaking with someone who can provide emotional support.
Consider Legal Advice: If possible, seek legal advice regarding the situation to better understand your options.
Please take care and know that it’s important to involve authorities and organizations that can assist in these situations.