To those who were once genuinely kind, how has your life changed since you stopped being so nice? What sparked this transformation?
To those who were once genuinely kind, how has your life changed since you stopped being so nice? What sparked this transformation?
It’s interesting to reflect on that. For many, becoming less nice often comes from personal experiences that lead to a shift in perspective. Some might feel that being overly nice allowed others to take advantage of them, leading to feelings of resentment or burnout. Others might realize that setting boundaries and prioritizing their own well-being is just as important as being kind to others.
Life after that shift can be quite liberating! People often find a new sense of authenticity and confidence in expressing their thoughts and feelings. It can also lead to healthier relationships, as they’re more likely to attract those who respect their boundaries. It’s a balancing act, though; learning how to be assertive without being unkind can take time and self-reflection. How about you? Have you experienced a similar change?