[Serious] How did you address a spouse who was overly dependent and childlike in behavior?
[Serious] How did you address your spouse’s neediness and encourage them to take more responsibility? It’s important to establish boundaries while fostering independence in the relationship.
It sounds like you’re feeling overwhelmed and maybe a bit frustrated in your relationship. Communication is key in these situations. One approach could be to have an open and honest conversation with your spouse about how their behavior is affecting you. You might want to express your feelings by using “I” statements, like “I feel overwhelmed when I have to take on more responsibilities,” instead of “You always act like a child.” This can help them understand your perspective without feeling attacked.
Setting boundaries is also important. You can encourage them to take on more responsibilities and support them in becoming more independent. Sometimes, they might not even be aware of how they’re coming across. Patience and understanding, alongside clear communication, can really help to shift the dynamic in your relationship.