There are definitely some phrases that can come off as backhanded compliments or feel like an insult, even if that wasn’t the intention. For example, saying “You’re really smart for someone who didn’t go to college” can feel condescending, despite it being a compliment. Other examples might include comments like “You look great for your age” or “You have a unique style.” Any thoughts on specific examples you’ve encountered?
There are definitely some phrases that can come off as backhanded compliments or feel like an insult, even if that wasn’t the intention. For example, saying “You’re really smart for someone who didn’t go to college” can feel condescending, despite it being a compliment. Other examples might include comments like “You look great for your age” or “You have a unique style.” Any thoughts on specific examples you’ve encountered?