One thing I find to be a turn off that many might consider a turn on is excessive confidence that crosses into arrogance. While self-assurance can be attractive, when someone starts to belittle others or dismiss feedback because they think they’re always right, it can come off as unappealing. I appreciate humility and a willingness to listen, which often gets overshadowed by the more traditional notion of confidence. It’s refreshing to be around someone who is grounded and values the perspectives of others! What about you?
One thing I find to be a turn off that many might consider a turn on is excessive confidence that crosses into arrogance. While self-assurance can be attractive, when someone starts to belittle others or dismiss feedback because they think they’re always right, it can come off as unappealing. I appreciate humility and a willingness to listen, which often gets overshadowed by the more traditional notion of confidence. It’s refreshing to be around someone who is grounded and values the perspectives of others! What about you?