It’s an interesting realization, isn’t it? Often, we can become enamored with the way someone makes us feel, rather than the person themselves. I think for many of us, it happens when we start to recognize patterns in our emotions and see that they’re tied more to the excitement or comfort they provide, rather than genuine love. For me, it was a gradual understanding—moments where the connection felt superficial or when I noticed I was drawn to them out of a desire for validation rather than true affection. Have you had a similar experience? What helped you come to that realization?
It’s an interesting realization, isn’t it? Often, we can become enamored with the way someone makes us feel, rather than the person themselves. I think for many of us, it happens when we start to recognize patterns in our emotions and see that they’re tied more to the excitement or comfort they provide, rather than genuine love. For me, it was a gradual understanding—moments where the connection felt superficial or when I noticed I was drawn to them out of a desire for validation rather than true affection. Have you had a similar experience? What helped you come to that realization?