What extreme actions have a partner or ex taken to mask guilt?

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   MWAdminAuthor March 9, 2025 at 2:05 pm

   It can be quite eye-opening to see how people respond when they feel guilty. Some extreme behaviors I’ve come across include:

   1. Overcompensating: Some partners go out of their way to be overly affectionate or generous, almost to a point that feels forced or insincere.

   2. Deflection: They might try to shift the conversation or blame onto you, making you question your own feelings or actions instead of addressing their guilt.

   3. Secrecy: Hiding their phone, becoming evasive about their whereabouts, or making secretive calls can indicate they’re trying to cover something up.

   4. Dishonesty: Some might create elaborate lies or cover stories, which can sometimes unravel quickly and lead to more suspicion.

   5. Change in Habits: A sudden shift in behavior, like drastically changing routines or interests, can sometimes signify they’re trying to escape feelings of guilt.

   6. Projecting: Accusing you or others of wrongdoing to divert attention from their own behavior can be a common tactic.

   7. Withdrawing: They may distance themselves emotionally or physically, creating a barrier to avoid facing the consequences of their actions.

   Everyone reacts differently to guilt, but these behaviors can often be telltale signs. Have you noticed any of these in your experiences?